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Re: Should I go back or not?

#101 Post by Boac » Mon Apr 18, 2016 9:52 am

I agree - inappropriate it was, although 'in-line' with some of this forum, but the point is still valid. If 'Slasher' is, as it appears, obsessed with over-inflated mammaries, then his choice of long-term partner would seem wrong, unless of course the lady has had breast enlargement treatment since the photo. I'm sure none of us want to see a 'reconciliation' which could well break down again - perhaps due to the fore-going - and result in more upset for all three parties, particularly for the child.

I prefer to see flame's post in this light.

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Re: Should I go back or not?

#102 Post by Slasher » Thu Apr 21, 2016 3:43 am

Ok fair enough Boac but here's a reminder for everybody about love lust and fetish.

Yep, love big tits. Huge ones. As I mentioned in the Small Titties thread by definition its a fetish.

Lust - of course I'm in lust with the ex. She's still bloody good eye candy and a fantastic bonk. Has
it ever worn off? Nope, but the "lusticity" became less integral in the cot over time (assuming the
bonk wasn't porn-induced) but its certainly still there. Remember she's much younger than me.

Love - as I inferred in my first post Ap was "de-objectied" - that's what the emotion involves - and
you can't help who you fall in love with....It just happens. So whether she's big or small tits doesn't
matter. In any case after the weaning her boobs stayed big. Lucky me about her genetics. Are they
HUGE melons? No. Do I want 'em huge? It doesn't matter to me either way. I've never mentioned her
getting a boob job and neither has she.

Apsara had no problem whatsoever when I was satisfying my fetish. In fact she enjoyed watching
big boob porn with me. Apart from love we have a lot of that "lust" stuff coursing through our veins.

Anyway its been a great past few days with the son. The really good news is that Ap's accepted the
road map but there's a lot of fine tuning still being sorted out - esp my present job and hers up at
our home town. There's also timing but if all goes well I expect us to be permanent itemry again at
the end of the year.

The night before I presented the map I went over all the replies in this thread as well as associated
PMs and emails, and I thank you all for your input. The For posts and Againsts really made me think.

That's all I can tell yas at this point without complicating simplicity.
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Re: Should I go back or not?

#103 Post by Boac » Thu Apr 21, 2016 7:38 am

Fingers crossed!

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#104 Post by Slasher » Thu Apr 21, 2016 7:38 am

Ta Boac.

We also gotta go through the whole remarrying process. #-o
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#105 Post by OFSO » Thu Apr 21, 2016 1:16 pm

I'm sure there's an awful lot of us keeping our fingers crossed for you, Slasher. Luck !

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#106 Post by rgbrock1 » Thu Apr 21, 2016 1:19 pm

Good luck to you Slasher and yours. Godspeed. :YMAPPLAUSE: :-bd
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Re: Should I go back or not?

#107 Post by 54Phan » Thu Apr 21, 2016 2:04 pm

Yes, good luck, Slasher!

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Re: Should I go back or not?

#108 Post by Ex-Ascot » Thu Apr 21, 2016 2:43 pm

'We also gotta go through the whole remarrying process.' 

Oh, glory be mate. Does that mean that you have to meet the MIL again. Forget it, bang out now.
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#109 Post by Flame Lily FX » Fri Apr 22, 2016 9:23 pm

Your Mrs shagging someone else in a pub is no biggie. Good luck. She is definitely someone you'd want to remarry. :O3 Classy lady.

Good luck.
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Re: Should I go back or not?

#110 Post by Slasher » Sat Apr 23, 2016 4:54 am

Does that mean that you have to meet the MIL again.


Yep. And she was the main one who ripped into me like a wrecking ball when the divorce was decided. :-s

Anyway the In-Laws aren't a bad bunch. I don't think Ap has told 'em yet.

BTW for those who advocated nae, don't think for one minute I disagreed. Marriage is a bet you are
willing to stake the rest of your life on. She (excuse the pun) f*cked up big time....and we both lost
the bet. However I can tell you she's really really really learnt one hell of a lesson through this and as
other posters have inferred, I don't want to end up one day a despondent cranky old coot wondering
what could have been (after all I have first hand knowledge of her). I have accepted it was a drunken
moment of weakness, I accept it was an impulse, and I accept she has changed much for the better.

As one poster PM'd to remind me, am I sure I'm not a victim of "convenient thinking" to simply just
get back to the woman I love? I'd already wrestled with that for quite some time, so I went to see a
bloody good marriage councillor early in the peace to help me answer the question. The result was
no, this wasn't convenient thinking. Ever the doubter I went to get a second opinion - same result.
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Re: Should I go back or not?

#111 Post by Pinky the pilot » Sat Apr 23, 2016 11:43 am

Roger all of your above post Slasher. :-bd

Now... all we want to see in due course, of course, is a piccy of the both of you together with you arms around each other,Fully clothed if you please! :D :D and with big smiles, thereby telling us that you will be duly living

"Happily ever after!" :YMHUG:

Does the above motion have a seconder? :D
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Re: Should I go back or not?

#112 Post by Ex-Ascot » Sat Apr 23, 2016 11:57 am

A seconder Pinky, but, including the young chap please and I don't mean Slasher.
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#113 Post by Flame Lily FX » Sat Apr 23, 2016 7:29 pm

For sure! I can't wait to see Slasher in these photos. I have a vision of some ripped, blonde shaggy haired Oz 30-something surfer dude.

I'll dance at your wedding. :O3 I love fairy tale endings. :O3
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Re: Should I go back or not?

#114 Post by Pinky the pilot » Sun Apr 24, 2016 7:47 am

I'll dance at your wedding


May I have the second dance with you Flame Lily FX? :-bd :D

including the young chap please and I don't mean Slasher.


Concur, Ex-Ascot. :-bd The Family, as it should be!
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Re: Should I go back or not?

#115 Post by Boac » Wed Oct 05, 2016 8:30 am

..er - what happened?

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#116 Post by Boac » Thu Oct 06, 2016 7:46 pm

...er, Slasher? After all the 'activity' here, wtf happened?

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Re: Should I go back or not?

#117 Post by Slasher » Sat Oct 08, 2016 12:56 am

The "road map" agreed to by Apsara and me was proceeding according to plan, but very recently we hit a snag (to do with me changing jobs). Things are still being negotiated. Too early to say anything at this juncture as its too complicated to write out all here. I'll say something once the problem has been sorted out one way or another, which will simplify the next post by me.

The outlook is still good however.
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#118 Post by Boac » Sat Oct 08, 2016 7:08 am

Good luck.

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#119 Post by GrumpyOldFart » Sun Oct 09, 2016 1:52 am

Seconded.
The older I get, the grumpier I get.
I may soon have to start biting people. X(

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#120 Post by Slasher » Sat Feb 25, 2017 3:02 am

I'm satisfied to report everything's going ok and according to the road map. The biggest glitch that could've caused things to run off the rails was the fact I don't wanna go back to my old employ. But that's been overcome by Apsara coming over to where I work for at least 7 days a month, assuming I can't get back for any reason.

There'll be no wedding (or should that be re-wedding?) for at least another year till we see how things really work out, but so far all is going well.

Her girlfriend group has been supportive (it is fortunate that she mixes with the right crowd) and being Buddhists the ex-outlaws are cool, but deep-rooted Asian cultural pressure is making them want to see Ap remarried as quickly as possible. We've both told them how we are sticking to the plan and they do understand the logic - they don't want to see a re-divorce any more than we do.
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