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Preoccupied with the flesh

#1 Post by Slasher » Wed Jul 03, 2019 5:59 am

Dunno whether to post this here or in Medical forum. I'll try here first.

Lately I'm becoming far too preoccupied with porn and sex, to the point where I'm trading sleep to watch pics and clips downloaded online. Even during sim breaks I'll do some sorting and arranging of 'em on my puter. I like my filth orderly and neatly filed.

Admittedly I'm away from the wife (35yo) and she does her best to "help" on Skype (if I can put it that way) but next day I'm back into the habit again. It happens at home too, strangely enough, but to a lesser degree.

I haven't had this happen before, not to the point of it becoming a near-obsession like it is now.

I'm still on the sunny side of 60 but is this normal for blokes my age or older? I just ask if this is a phase or I need to join a support group or something. Any advice appreciated.

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#2 Post by Boac » Wed Jul 03, 2019 7:12 am

"is this normal for blokes " - NO. You definitely need 'help'. Just be careful where you get it.

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#3 Post by Pontius Navigator » Wed Jul 03, 2019 7:50 am

At least you are man enough to speak about it.

The problem is blunting of desire and a drift into more extreme pornography. From 'harmless' pictures you might be tempted to move on from watching to participating.

In my last job our site, amongst others, was run by a contractor. In the next site the local manager was found to be viewing porn on his work computer. He agreed to resign.

As BOAC said you need help as self-help can involve alternative displacement activity such a drinking to excess with similar consequences.

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#4 Post by Capetonian » Wed Jul 03, 2019 7:54 am

I thought our resident wanker had left us!

Slash as long as you don't get hairs on the palm of your hand it's fine!

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#5 Post by Sisemen » Wed Jul 03, 2019 2:31 pm

Be very careful - you could end up like Angie Merkel

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#6 Post by Boac » Wed Jul 03, 2019 2:49 pm

Careful - there's a lot of flesh there.................

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#7 Post by OFSO » Wed Jul 03, 2019 4:33 pm

Angie Merkel likes porn ? Who would have thought it.

Seriously, is there anyone here over the age of 60....ok, 70.....who does not think of the carnal pleasures of one's youth, now gone for ever, with some sadness, and try to recapture some of that long-lost magic by glancing through naughty pages now and then ? Being obsessive, about ANYTHING, is quite a different matter, although when the object of your dreams is golf, playing bridge, or (ahem) fondling a chrome blown 427 sitting in the engine bay of a cherry-red deuce coupe (with open headers) that's less liable to attract the attention of virus-sowers at least and the authorities at, well, not-least. My father got obsessive about refighting the naval battles of WWI with two fleets he built himself and had the strength of will to put the boats away and never touch them again.

Try EFT. Works wonders !

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#8 Post by Boac » Wed Jul 03, 2019 4:51 pm

"Angie Merkel likes porn" - well, she certainly has the shakes :YMPARTY:

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#9 Post by Slasher » Wed Jul 03, 2019 11:50 pm

Maybe if I try to mentally associate porn with Mad Merkel and Diane Flabbot it might help, as well as trying to do something else when not at work.

Last night was a particularly long session: 2 hours of flesh viewing. Still managed to get 5 hours sleep though. Today is a day shift at work but sure as hell I'll be online again when I finish.

I hope it's just a phase.

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#10 Post by Rwy in Sight » Thu Jul 04, 2019 5:35 am

I hope you don't use company materiel for that activity.

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#11 Post by Slasher » Thu Jul 04, 2019 7:29 am

No RiS I'm talking about my old XP personal computer. I don't use it for work. Apple have cornered the airline crew and training racket with its iPads. My humungus MSI W10 laptop is used purely for business/work-related and is so clean that the Virgin Mary herself would be pleased after thoroughly reviewing all its files.

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#12 Post by Rwy in Sight » Thu Jul 04, 2019 8:09 am

Just a practical question. After completing the activity, one ends up with some stickiness and unpleasantness on his pants. Particularly untoward at a business environment. A reason to stop. How do you cope?

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#13 Post by ribrash » Thu Jul 04, 2019 8:45 am

Slasher wrote:
Wed Jul 03, 2019 11:50 pm
Maybe if I try to mentally associate porn with Mad Merkel and Diane Flabbot it might help, as well as trying to do something else when not at work.

Last night was a particularly long session: 2 hours of flesh viewing. Still managed to get 5 hours sleep though. Today is a day shift at work but sure as hell I'll be online again when I finish.

I hope it's just a phase.
Take up some hobbies.Fishing and playing the guitar cured me. :)) :)) :-bd

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Re: Preoccupied with the flesh

#14 Post by Pontius Navigator » Thu Jul 04, 2019 9:47 am

It will probably drop off after you become bored rigid.

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#15 Post by Boac » Thu Jul 04, 2019 10:41 am

Rigid? [-X

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#16 Post by Pontius Navigator » Thu Jul 04, 2019 4:02 pm

Boac wrote:
Thu Jul 04, 2019 10:41 am
Rigid? [-X
Are you a bonar mate?

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#17 Post by G~Man » Thu Jul 04, 2019 6:25 pm

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B-) Life may not be the party you hoped for, but while you're here, you may as well dance. B-)

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#18 Post by Slasher » Thu Jul 04, 2019 11:15 pm

ribrash wrote:
Thu Jul 04, 2019 8:45 am
Take up some hobbies.Fishing and playing the guitar cured me. :)) :-bd
One cannot fish and play the guitar in a HKG hotel room 'rash. One could well try but the adjacent room occupants might complain.


G-Man is this enough? I'm sure you don't want my salivating moosh included! =p~

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Boac wrote:
Thu Jul 04, 2019 10:41 am
Rigid?
Er...yes I was sir after viewing the antics of the blonde above! @-)

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#19 Post by Slasher » Fri Jul 05, 2019 3:36 am

I saw this rather than sort out my filth on my personal laptop during sim break just now.





Might try something like this again when I get back to the pub this arvo. How long it will last I don't know.

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#20 Post by Slasher » Sat Jul 06, 2019 9:48 am

It didn't last. Watched a thing about neutron stars collapsing for a few mins then I got bored. Jumped to see a nice clip involving a 25yo Chinese chick and a 30-something Brit lady who met at some vacation island in the Med and really really liked each other.

Fortunately 'twas only of 45 min duration so it didn't eat into my sleeping time much.

This is becoming...has become quite a habit. I may need to see someone about it before it starts interfering with me job.

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