Should I go back or not?
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I agree - inappropriate it was, although 'in-line' with some of this forum, but the point is still valid. If 'Slasher' is, as it appears, obsessed with over-inflated mammaries, then his choice of long-term partner would seem wrong, unless of course the lady has had breast enlargement treatment since the photo. I'm sure none of us want to see a 'reconciliation' which could well break down again - perhaps due to the fore-going - and result in more upset for all three parties, particularly for the child.
I prefer to see flame's post in this light.
I prefer to see flame's post in this light.
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Ok fair enough Boac but here's a reminder for everybody about love lust and fetish.
Yep, love big tits. Huge ones. As I mentioned in the Small Titties thread by definition its a fetish.
Lust - of course I'm in lust with the ex. She's still bloody good eye candy and a fantastic bonk. Has
it ever worn off? Nope, but the "lusticity" became less integral in the cot over time (assuming the
bonk wasn't porn-induced) but its certainly still there. Remember she's much younger than me.
Love - as I inferred in my first post Ap was "de-objectied" - that's what the emotion involves - and
you can't help who you fall in love with....It just happens. So whether she's big or small tits doesn't
matter. In any case after the weaning her boobs stayed big. Lucky me about her genetics. Are they
HUGE melons? No. Do I want 'em huge? It doesn't matter to me either way. I've never mentioned her
getting a boob job and neither has she.
Apsara had no problem whatsoever when I was satisfying my fetish. In fact she enjoyed watching
big boob porn with me. Apart from love we have a lot of that "lust" stuff coursing through our veins.
Anyway its been a great past few days with the son. The really good news is that Ap's accepted the
road map but there's a lot of fine tuning still being sorted out - esp my present job and hers up at
our home town. There's also timing but if all goes well I expect us to be permanent itemry again at
the end of the year.
The night before I presented the map I went over all the replies in this thread as well as associated
PMs and emails, and I thank you all for your input. The For posts and Againsts really made me think.
That's all I can tell yas at this point without complicating simplicity.
Yep, love big tits. Huge ones. As I mentioned in the Small Titties thread by definition its a fetish.
Lust - of course I'm in lust with the ex. She's still bloody good eye candy and a fantastic bonk. Has
it ever worn off? Nope, but the "lusticity" became less integral in the cot over time (assuming the
bonk wasn't porn-induced) but its certainly still there. Remember she's much younger than me.
Love - as I inferred in my first post Ap was "de-objectied" - that's what the emotion involves - and
you can't help who you fall in love with....It just happens. So whether she's big or small tits doesn't
matter. In any case after the weaning her boobs stayed big. Lucky me about her genetics. Are they
HUGE melons? No. Do I want 'em huge? It doesn't matter to me either way. I've never mentioned her
getting a boob job and neither has she.
Apsara had no problem whatsoever when I was satisfying my fetish. In fact she enjoyed watching
big boob porn with me. Apart from love we have a lot of that "lust" stuff coursing through our veins.
Anyway its been a great past few days with the son. The really good news is that Ap's accepted the
road map but there's a lot of fine tuning still being sorted out - esp my present job and hers up at
our home town. There's also timing but if all goes well I expect us to be permanent itemry again at
the end of the year.
The night before I presented the map I went over all the replies in this thread as well as associated
PMs and emails, and I thank you all for your input. The For posts and Againsts really made me think.
That's all I can tell yas at this point without complicating simplicity.
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Fingers crossed!
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Ta Boac.
We also gotta go through the whole remarrying process.
We also gotta go through the whole remarrying process.
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I'm sure there's an awful lot of us keeping our fingers crossed for you, Slasher. Luck !
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Good luck to you Slasher and yours. Godspeed.
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Yes, good luck, Slasher!
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'We also gotta go through the whole remarrying process.'
Oh, glory be mate. Does that mean that you have to meet the MIL again. Forget it, bang out now.
Oh, glory be mate. Does that mean that you have to meet the MIL again. Forget it, bang out now.
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Your Mrs shagging someone else in a pub is no biggie. Good luck. She is definitely someone you'd want to remarry. Classy lady.
Good luck.
Good luck.
Nasty Bitch bent over the kitchen sink!
I could see that, if not actually disgruntled, he was far from being gruntled.
I could see that, if not actually disgruntled, he was far from being gruntled.
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Does that mean that you have to meet the MIL again.
Yep. And she was the main one who ripped into me like a wrecking ball when the divorce was decided.
Anyway the In-Laws aren't a bad bunch. I don't think Ap has told 'em yet.
BTW for those who advocated nae, don't think for one minute I disagreed. Marriage is a bet you are
willing to stake the rest of your life on. She (excuse the pun) f*cked up big time....and we both lost
the bet. However I can tell you she's really really really learnt one hell of a lesson through this and as
other posters have inferred, I don't want to end up one day a despondent cranky old coot wondering
what could have been (after all I have first hand knowledge of her). I have accepted it was a drunken
moment of weakness, I accept it was an impulse, and I accept she has changed much for the better.
As one poster PM'd to remind me, am I sure I'm not a victim of "convenient thinking" to simply just
get back to the woman I love? I'd already wrestled with that for quite some time, so I went to see a
bloody good marriage councillor early in the peace to help me answer the question. The result was
no, this wasn't convenient thinking. Ever the doubter I went to get a second opinion - same result.
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Roger all of your above post Slasher.
Now... all we want to see in due course, of course, is a piccy of the both of you together with you arms around each other,Fully clothed if you please! and with big smiles, thereby telling us that you will be duly living
"Happily ever after!"
Does the above motion have a seconder?
Now... all we want to see in due course, of course, is a piccy of the both of you together with you arms around each other,Fully clothed if you please! and with big smiles, thereby telling us that you will be duly living
"Happily ever after!"
Does the above motion have a seconder?
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A seconder Pinky, but, including the young chap please and I don't mean Slasher.
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For sure! I can't wait to see Slasher in these photos. I have a vision of some ripped, blonde shaggy haired Oz 30-something surfer dude.
I'll dance at your wedding. I love fairy tale endings.
I'll dance at your wedding. I love fairy tale endings.
Nasty Bitch bent over the kitchen sink!
I could see that, if not actually disgruntled, he was far from being gruntled.
I could see that, if not actually disgruntled, he was far from being gruntled.
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I'll dance at your wedding
May I have the second dance with you Flame Lily FX?
including the young chap please and I don't mean Slasher.
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..er - what happened?
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...er, Slasher? After all the 'activity' here, wtf happened?
Re: Should I go back or not?
The "road map" agreed to by Apsara and me was proceeding according to plan, but very recently we hit a snag (to do with me changing jobs). Things are still being negotiated. Too early to say anything at this juncture as its too complicated to write out all here. I'll say something once the problem has been sorted out one way or another, which will simplify the next post by me.
The outlook is still good however.
The outlook is still good however.
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Good luck.
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Seconded.
The older I get, the grumpier I get.
I may soon have to start biting people.
I may soon have to start biting people.
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I'm satisfied to report everything's going ok and according to the road map. The biggest glitch that could've caused things to run off the rails was the fact I don't wanna go back to my old employ. But that's been overcome by Apsara coming over to where I work for at least 7 days a month, assuming I can't get back for any reason.
There'll be no wedding (or should that be re-wedding?) for at least another year till we see how things really work out, but so far all is going well.
Her girlfriend group has been supportive (it is fortunate that she mixes with the right crowd) and being Buddhists the ex-outlaws are cool, but deep-rooted Asian cultural pressure is making them want to see Ap remarried as quickly as possible. We've both told them how we are sticking to the plan and they do understand the logic - they don't want to see a re-divorce any more than we do.
There'll be no wedding (or should that be re-wedding?) for at least another year till we see how things really work out, but so far all is going well.
Her girlfriend group has been supportive (it is fortunate that she mixes with the right crowd) and being Buddhists the ex-outlaws are cool, but deep-rooted Asian cultural pressure is making them want to see Ap remarried as quickly as possible. We've both told them how we are sticking to the plan and they do understand the logic - they don't want to see a re-divorce any more than we do.